Baz\u0131 kay\u0131plar y\u00fcksek sesle ya\u015fanmaz. Hayat d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan devam ediyor gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrken, i\u00e7eride bir \u015feyler yerinden oynam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. S\u00f6zc\u00fckler yetmez, zaman \u00e7izgisi bulan\u0131kla\u015f\u0131r. \u201cArt\u0131k ge\u00e7mi\u015ftir\u201d denilen yerde, asl\u0131nda hi\u00e7bir \u015fey bitmemi\u015ftir.
\nBu yaz\u0131, yas\u0131n ne oldu\u011funa dair kesin cevaplar vermek i\u00e7in de\u011fil; yasla birlikte ya\u015faman\u0131n m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011fu bir alan\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr k\u0131lmak i\u00e7in var. Ve bazen en do\u011fru yer, bu sorular\u0131 yaln\u0131z ba\u015f\u0131na ta\u015f\u0131mak zorunda olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark etti\u011fin yerdir.<\/p>\n
Yas Nedir ve Neden Bu Kadar Zorlar?<\/strong> Bu G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeler Yas S\u00fcrecine Ne Sa\u011flar?<\/strong> Bu g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelerde ama\u00e7: Her seans, \u00f6nceden belirlenmi\u015f kal\u0131plara de\u011fil; senin o andaki ihtiyac\u0131na g\u00f6re \u015fekillenir. Yas\u0131n ritmi sana aittir.<\/p>\n Bu S\u00fcrecin Ard\u0131ndan Hayatta Ne De\u011fi\u015fir?<\/strong> Ama \u015funlar m\u00fcmk\u00fcn h\u00e2le gelebilir: Yas, do\u011fru ele al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, insan\u0131n kendisiyle yeniden ili\u015fki kurabildi\u011fi bir ge\u00e7i\u015f alan\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir.<\/p>\n Bu G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeler Kimler \u0130\u00e7in Anlaml\u0131d\u0131r?<\/strong><\/p>\n Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7 \u00f6zellikle \u015funlar\u0131 hissedenler i\u00e7in anlaml\u0131 olabilir: Yasla ba\u015f etmek zor. Baz\u0131 kay\u0131plar y\u00fcksek sesle ya\u015fanmaz. Hayat d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan devam ediyor gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrken, i\u00e7eride bir \u015feyler yerinden oynam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. S\u00f6zc\u00fckler yetmez, zaman \u00e7izgisi bulan\u0131kla\u015f\u0131r. \u201cArt\u0131k ge\u00e7mi\u015ftir\u201d denilen yerde, asl\u0131nda hi\u00e7bir \u015fey bitmemi\u015ftir. Bu yaz\u0131, yas\u0131n ne oldu\u011funa dair kesin cevaplar vermek i\u00e7in de\u011fil; yasla birlikte ya\u015faman\u0131n m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011fu bir alan\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr k\u0131lmak i\u00e7in var. Ve bazen en do\u011fru […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":53888,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","content-type":"","jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":{"subtitle":"","format":"standard","jnews_video_option_group":[[]],"override":[{"template":"1","parallax":"1","fullscreen":"1","layout":"right-sidebar","sidebar":"singlepost-widget","second_sidebar":"default-sidebar","sticky_sidebar":"1","share_position":"float","share_float_style":"share-normal","show_featured":"1","show_post_meta":"1","show_post_author":"1","show_post_author_image":"1","show_post_date":"1","post_date_format":"default","post_date_format_custom":"Y\/m\/d","show_post_category":"1","show_post_reading_time":"0","post_reading_time_wpm":"300","post_calculate_word_method":"str_word_count","show_zoom_button":"1","zoom_button_out_step":"2","zoom_button_in_step":"3","show_post_tag":"1","show_popup_post":"1","show_comment_section":"1","number_popup_post":"2","show_author_box":"1","show_post_related":"1"}],"image_override":[{"single_post_thumbnail_size":"no-crop","single_post_gallery_size":"crop-500"}],"trending_post_position":"meta","trending_post_label":"Trend","sponsored_post_label":"Sponsorlu","disable_ad":"0"},"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_override_bookmark_settings":{"override_bookmark_button":"0","override_show_bookmark_button":"0"},"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_paywall_metabox":{"paragraph_limit":"2","enable_premium_post":"0","enable_free_post":"0","override_paragraph_limit":"0","enable_preview_post":"0","enable_preview_video":"0"},"jnews_review":[],"enable_review":"","type":"percentage","name":"","summary":"","brand":"","sku":"","good":[],"bad":[],"score_override":"","override_value":"","rating":[],"price":[],"jnews_override_counter":{"view_counter_number":"0","share_counter_number":"0","like_counter_number":"0","dislike_counter_number":"0"},"jnews_post_split":{"post_split":[{"template":"1","tag":"h2","numbering":"asc","mode":"normal","first":"0","enable_toc":"0","toc_type":"normal"}]},"jnews_podcast_option":[],"jnews_podcast_series":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"jnews-series":[],"class_list":["post-53882","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel"],"yoast_head":"\n
\nYas yaln\u0131zca bir vefat\u0131n ard\u0131ndan ya\u015fanmaz.
\nBir ayr\u0131l\u0131k, bir bo\u015fanma, bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck, bir ili\u015fkinin ya da hayalin sonlanmas\u0131 da kay\u0131pt\u0131r. Yas, bu kay\u0131plara verilen do\u011fal ama karma\u015f\u0131k bir tepkidir.
\nToplum \u00e7o\u011fu zaman yas\u0131n \u201ck\u0131sa s\u00fcrmesi\u201d gerekti\u011fini ima eder. G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olmay\u0131, devam etmeyi, toparlanmay\u0131 bekler. Oysa yas do\u011frusal de\u011fildir. Baz\u0131 g\u00fcnler hi\u00e7bir \u015fey hissedilmez, baz\u0131 g\u00fcnler en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir detay her \u015feyi yeniden a\u00e7ar.
\nYas, zay\u0131fl\u0131k de\u011fil; ba\u011f\u0131n izidir. Ve ancak kabul edildi\u011finde, g\u00fcvenli bir alanda ele al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir.<\/p>\n
\n10 seansl\u0131k Kay\u0131p ve Yas S\u00fcreci psikolojik dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k paketi, yas\u0131n \u201cge\u00e7mesi\u201d i\u00e7in de\u011fil; ta\u015f\u0131nabilir h\u00e2le gelmesi i\u00e7in yap\u0131land\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\n\u2022\tKayb\u0131n sende b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 duygusal ve zihinsel izleri birlikte anlamland\u0131rmak
\n\u2022\t\u00d6fke, su\u00e7luluk, bo\u015fluk, korku gibi yo\u011fun duygularla ba\u015f etme becerilerini g\u00fc\u00e7lendirmek
\n\u2022\tKayb\u0131nla kurdu\u011fun i\u00e7sel ili\u015fkiyi yeniden yap\u0131land\u0131rmak
\n\u2022\tG\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fama ve ili\u015fkilere yava\u015f\u00e7a geri d\u00f6nebilece\u011fin bir zemin olu\u015fturmak<\/p>\n
\nBu g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeler bir \u015feyi tamamen \u201cgeride b\u0131rakmay\u0131\u201d vaat etmez.<\/p>\n
\n\u2022\tYas\u0131n seni kontrol etmedi\u011fi, ama senin de onu ink\u00e2r etmedi\u011fin bir denge
\n\u2022\tDuygular\u0131n\u0131 bast\u0131rmadan, onlarla birlikte ya\u015fayabilme becerisi
\n\u2022\tKayb\u0131n hayat\u0131ndaki yerini daha net g\u00f6rebilme
\n\u2022\tKendinle ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla yeniden ba\u011f kurmaya alan a\u00e7abilme
\n\u2022\t\u201cBen kimim \u015fimdi?\u201d sorusuna daha \u015fefkatli yan\u0131tlar bulabilme<\/p>\n
\n\u2022\tYak\u0131n bir kay\u0131p ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f ama h\u00e2l\u00e2 onun a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131yanlar
\n\u2022\tAyr\u0131l\u0131k, bo\u015fanma, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck gibi duygusal kay\u0131plar\u0131n ard\u0131ndan kendini toparlayamayanlar
\n\u2022\t\u201cDevam ediyorum ama i\u00e7imde bir \u015feyler eksik\u201d hissini ya\u015fayanlar
\n\u2022\tSu\u00e7luluk, anlams\u0131zl\u0131k ya da kimlik karma\u015fas\u0131 ya\u015fayanlar
\n\u2022\tDuygular\u0131n\u0131 bast\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ya da ifade edemedi\u011fini fark edenler
\n\u2022\tYas s\u00fcrecinde g\u00fcvenli, profesyonel ve yarg\u0131s\u0131z bir destek arayanlar<\/p>\n
\nAma bunu tek ba\u015f\u0131na yapmak zorunda de\u011filsin.
\nBazen iyile\u015fme, \u201cdaha iyi olmak\u201d de\u011fil; oldu\u011fun yerde anla\u015f\u0131lmakla ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"