A\u015fk \u00e7o\u011fu zaman iki u\u00e7 aras\u0131nda ya\u015fan\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ya \u00e7ok yak\u0131nda\u2026<\/p>\n
Ya \u00e7ok uzakta.<\/p>\n
Bir taraf\u0131nda kendinden vazge\u00e7mek,<\/p>\n
di\u011fer taraf\u0131nda sevgiden mahrum kalmak vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ve bir\u00e7ok insan \u015fu soruyla ba\u015f ba\u015fa kal\u0131r:<\/p>\n
\u201cBen neden ili\u015fkilerde ya kayboluyorum ya da geri \u00e7ekiliyorum?\u201d<\/p>\n
Bu bir karakter meselesi de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n
Bu, s\u0131n\u0131rlarla yak\u0131nl\u0131k aras\u0131ndaki ili\u015fkinin yeterince \u00f6\u011frenilmemi\u015f olmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
S\u0131n\u0131r Koymak So\u011fukluk De\u011fildir<\/p>\n
Romantik ili\u015fkilerde s\u0131n\u0131r \u00e7o\u011fu zaman yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n
S\u0131n\u0131r koymak;<\/p>\n
Mesafe koymak san\u0131l\u0131r
\nSevgiyi k\u0131smak gibi hissedilir
\n\u201cE\u011fer s\u0131n\u0131r koyarsam, beni sevmez\u201d korkusunu tetikler
\nOysa sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131r:<\/p>\n
yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 azaltmaz, g\u00fcvenli h\u00e2le getirir.<\/p>\n
S\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 olmayan bir yak\u0131nl\u0131kta ki\u015fi kendini kaybeder.<\/p>\n
S\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 sert olan bir ili\u015fkide ise ba\u011f kurmak zorla\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ger\u00e7ek ba\u011f, bu ikisinin aras\u0131ndaki denge noktas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u201cA\u015fkta S\u0131n\u0131rlar\u201d G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesi Ne Yapar?<\/p>\n
Lev\u00e2ic\u2019in bu g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesi, romantik ili\u015fkilerde ya\u015fanan zorlanmalar\u0131 \u201ckim hakl\u0131?\u201d \u00fczerinden de\u011fil,<\/p>\n
ba\u011flanma, temas ve s\u0131n\u0131r haritas\u0131 \u00fczerinden ele al\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Bu g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmede ki\u015fi:<\/p>\n
Yak\u0131nl\u0131ktan neden ka\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ya da neden i\u00e7inde kayboldu\u011funu fark eder
\nSa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131rlar ile sevgi aras\u0131ndaki dengeyi kurmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenir
\nFl\u00f6rt ve cinsellikte do\u011fal ak\u0131\u015f\u0131 yeniden ke\u015ffeder
\nFiziksel temas ve dokunsall\u0131kla kurdu\u011fu ili\u015fkiyi anlamland\u0131r\u0131r
\nRomantik ili\u015fkilerde g\u00fcvenli ba\u011f\u0131n temellerini atar\u00a0
\nBu g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme, ili\u015fkiyi \u201cd\u00fczeltmek\u201d i\u00e7in de\u011fil;<\/p>\n
ili\u015fkiyi kuran yerini d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmek i\u00e7indir.<\/p>\n
Bu G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeden Sonra Hayatta Ne De\u011fi\u015fir?<\/p>\n
Sessiz ama k\u00f6kl\u00fc de\u011fi\u015fimler olur:<\/p>\n
Yak\u0131nla\u015f\u0131nca kendini kaybetmezsin
\nMesafe koydu\u011funda su\u00e7luluk hissetmezsin
\nFl\u00f6rt daha rahat, temas daha do\u011fal olur
\n\u201cSeviliyor muyum?\u201d kayg\u0131s\u0131 azal\u0131r
\n\u0130li\u015fkide hem kendin, hem birlikte kalabilirsin
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc art\u0131k biliyorsundur:<\/p>\n
Yak\u0131nl\u0131k, s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n bitti\u011fi yer de\u011fil;<\/p>\n
nerede durdu\u011funu bildi\u011fin yerdir.<\/p>\n
Kimler \u0130\u00e7in Bu G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme \u00d6zellikle D\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fcd\u00fcr?<\/p>\n
Yak\u0131n ili\u015fkilerde kendini kaybedenler
\nFazla mesafeli oldu\u011fu s\u00f6ylenenler
\nYak\u0131nla\u015f\u0131nca korkup, uzakla\u015f\u0131nca \u00f6zleyenler
\nFl\u00f6rt s\u00fcrecinde zorlananlar
\nFiziksel temas ve cinsellik konusunda belirsizlik ya\u015fayanlar
\nE\u011fer ili\u015fkilerinde \u201cdenge\u201d kelimesi sana hep uzak geldiyse,<\/p>\n
bu g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme tam da o noktaya bakar.<\/p>\n
Ocak Ay\u0131 \u0130\u00e7in Bir Davet<\/p>\n
Yeni bir y\u0131l, a\u015fkta daha \u00e7ok vermeyi de\u011fil;<\/p>\n
daha do\u011fru yerde durmay\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Lev\u00e2ic\u2019te konseptli g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeler, ili\u015fkileri y\u00fczeyden de\u011fil,<\/p>\n
yetkinlik ve ba\u011flanma d\u00fczeyinden ele al\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Bazen sorun sevgide de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n
Sorun, sevgiyi nereden ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndad\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Yak\u0131nl\u0131k, kendinden vazge\u00e7meden de m\u00fcmk\u00fcn.<\/p>\n
Yeter ki nerede duraca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilesin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
A\u015fk \u00e7o\u011fu zaman iki u\u00e7 aras\u0131nda ya\u015fan\u0131r. Ya \u00e7ok yak\u0131nda\u2026 Ya \u00e7ok uzakta. Bir taraf\u0131nda kendinden vazge\u00e7mek, di\u011fer taraf\u0131nda sevgiden mahrum kalmak vard\u0131r. Ve bir\u00e7ok insan \u015fu soruyla ba\u015f ba\u015fa kal\u0131r: \u201cBen neden ili\u015fkilerde ya kayboluyorum ya da geri \u00e7ekiliyorum?\u201d Bu bir karakter meselesi de\u011fildir. Bu, s\u0131n\u0131rlarla yak\u0131nl\u0131k aras\u0131ndaki ili\u015fkinin yeterince \u00f6\u011frenilmemi\u015f olmas\u0131d\u0131r. S\u0131n\u0131r Koymak […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":53823,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","content-type":"","jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":{"format":"standard","jnews_video_option_group":[[]],"override":[{"template":"1","parallax":"1","fullscreen":"1","layout":"right-sidebar","sidebar":"singlepost-widget","second_sidebar":"default-sidebar","sticky_sidebar":"1","share_position":"float","share_float_style":"share-normal","show_featured":"1","show_post_meta":"1","show_post_author":"1","show_post_author_image":"1","show_post_date":"1","post_date_format":"default","post_date_format_custom":"Y\/m\/d","show_post_category":"1","show_post_reading_time":"0","post_reading_time_wpm":"300","post_calculate_word_method":"str_word_count","show_zoom_button":"1","zoom_button_out_step":"2","zoom_button_in_step":"3","show_post_tag":"1","show_popup_post":"1","show_comment_section":"1","number_popup_post":"2","show_author_box":"1","show_post_related":"1"}],"image_override":[{"single_post_thumbnail_size":"no-crop","single_post_gallery_size":"crop-500"}],"trending_post_position":"meta","trending_post_label":"Trend","sponsored_post_label":"Sponsorlu","disable_ad":"0","subtitle":"A\u015fkta S\u0131n\u0131rlar: Romantik Yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n Haritas\u0131n\u0131 \u00d6\u011fren"},"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_override_bookmark_settings":{"override_bookmark_button":"0","override_show_bookmark_button":"0"},"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_paywall_metabox":{"paragraph_limit":"2","enable_premium_post":"0","enable_free_post":"0","override_paragraph_limit":"0","enable_preview_post":"0","enable_preview_video":"0"},"jnews_review":[],"enable_review":"","type":"percentage","name":"","summary":"","brand":"","sku":"","good":[],"bad":[],"score_override":"","override_value":"","rating":[],"price":[],"jnews_override_counter":{"view_counter_number":"0","share_counter_number":"0","like_counter_number":"0","dislike_counter_number":"0"},"jnews_post_split":{"post_split":[{"template":"1","tag":"h2","numbering":"asc","mode":"normal","first":"0","enable_toc":"0","toc_type":"normal"}]},"jnews_podcast_option":[],"jnews_podcast_series":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[205,634,65,47,212],"tags":[2972,987,293,2973,783,2976,2355,2407,2974,884,2844,702,2977,2967,711,2975,88,349,2978,122],"jnews-series":[],"class_list":["post-53840","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-iliskilerim","category-iliski-yetkinlikleri","category-kendimle-olan-iliskim","category-romantik-iliskilerim","category-sosyal-iliskilerim","tag-askta-sinirlar","tag-baglanma","tag-cinsellik","tag-dokunsallik","tag-duygusal-denge","tag-duygusal-sinirlar","tag-fiziksel-temas","tag-flort","tag-guvenli-bag","tag-iliski-dengesi","tag-iliski-haritasi","tag-iliski-yetkinligi","tag-kendini-kaybetmek","tag-levaic-gorusmesi","tag-mesafe","tag-ozfarkindalik","tag-romantik-iliskiler","tag-saglikli-sinirlar","tag-sucluluk-duygusu","tag-yakinlik"],"yoast_head":"\n