De\u011fi\u015fmeyen Hayat De\u011fil, De\u011fi\u015fmeyen Kal\u0131plar
\nYeni bir y\u0131la girdik.
\nTakvim de\u011fi\u015fti. Ajandalar yenilendi.
\nPeki ya ili\u015fkiler?<\/p>\n
Bir\u00e7ok insan i\u00e7in as\u0131l soru \u015fu:
\n\u201cNeden hayat\u0131mda yine ayn\u0131 \u015feyler oluyor?\u201d<\/p>\n
Farkl\u0131 isimler, farkl\u0131 hik\u00e2yeler, farkl\u0131 zamanlar\u2026
\nAma his tan\u0131d\u0131k.
\nYak\u0131nl\u0131kta kaybolmak.
\nMesafe koyunca su\u00e7luluk.
\nAyn\u0131 hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131, ayn\u0131 kopu\u015f noktas\u0131.<\/p>\n
Bu bir tesad\u00fcf de\u011fil.
\nBu, tekrar eden ili\u015fki kal\u0131plar\u0131.<\/p>\n
Lev\u00e2ic\u2019in Ocak say\u0131s\u0131, \u201cyeni hedefler\u201d koymak yerine daha zor ama daha ger\u00e7ek bir yere bak\u0131yor:
\n\u0130li\u015fkilerinde de\u011fi\u015fmeyen \u015feyi fark etmeye.<\/p>\n
\u0130nsan Ayn\u0131 \u0130li\u015fkiyi Neden Tekrar Eder?<\/p>\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bilin\u00e7li se\u00e7im yapmaz;
\nal\u0131\u015f\u0131ld\u0131k olan\u0131 se\u00e7er.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklukta \u00f6\u011frenilen ba\u011flanma bi\u00e7imleri,
\naileden devral\u0131nan ili\u015fki kodlar\u0131,
\nerken d\u00f6nem deneyimlerle olu\u015fan g\u00fcven alg\u0131s\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n
Bunlar fark edilmedi\u011finde,
\nhayat\u0131n farkl\u0131 d\u00f6nemlerinde ayn\u0131 ili\u015fki sahnesi yeniden kurulmaya devam eder.<\/p>\n
Partner de\u011fi\u015fir.
\nDuygu kal\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u201cTekrar Eden \u0130li\u015fkilerin S\u0131rr\u0131\u201d G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesi Ne Yapar?<\/p>\n
Lev\u00e2ic\u2019in bu \u00f6zel g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesi, ili\u015fkilere \u201cneden olmad\u0131?\u201d sorusuyla de\u011fil,
\n\u201cben burada neyi tekrar ediyorum?\u201d sorusuyla yakla\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Bu g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmede ki\u015fi:
\n\u2022\t\u0130li\u015fkilerinde tekrar eden d\u00f6ng\u00fclerin k\u00f6k nedenlerini g\u00f6r\u00fcr
\n\u2022\tAileden gelen ili\u015fki \u015fablonlar\u0131n\u0131n bug\u00fcne nas\u0131l ta\u015f\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark eder
\n\u2022\t\u201cNeden hep ayn\u0131 insanlar\u0131 se\u00e7iyorum?\u201d sorusuna ilk kez net cevaplar bulur
\n\u2022\tKendi de\u011ferleriyle yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ili\u015fki se\u00e7imleri aras\u0131ndaki ba\u011flant\u0131y\u0131 ke\u015ffeder
\n\u2022\tG\u00fcven duygusunun d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan m\u0131 i\u00e7eriden mi kuruldu\u011funu ay\u0131rt eder <\/p>\n
Bu bir \u201crahatlama\u201d g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesi de\u011fildir.
\nBu, y\u00f6n de\u011fi\u015ftiren bir fark\u0131ndal\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesidir.<\/p>\n
Bu G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeden Sonra Hayatta Ne De\u011fi\u015fir?<\/p>\n
K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama kritik \u015feyler:
\n\u2022\tAyn\u0131 davran\u0131\u015fa eskisi kadar uzun s\u00fcre katlanmazs\u0131n
\n\u2022\tYak\u0131nl\u0131k ve mesafe aras\u0131nda savrulmak azal\u0131r
\n\u2022\tSe\u00e7imlerinde \u201ctan\u0131d\u0131k\u201d olan de\u011fil, sana iyi gelen belirleyici olur
\n\u2022\t\u0130li\u015fkiler kader gibi ya\u015fanmaz; bilin\u00e7li tercihe d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr<\/p>\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc d\u00f6ng\u00fcy\u00fc fark etti\u011fin anda,
\nart\u0131k onun i\u00e7inde k\u00f6rlemesine kalmazs\u0131n.<\/p>\n
Kimler \u0130\u00e7in D\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc Bir Ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7t\u0131r?
\n\u2022\t\u201cHep ayn\u0131 ili\u015fkiyi ya\u015f\u0131yorum\u201d diyenler
\n\u2022\tGe\u00e7mi\u015f ili\u015fkilerin g\u00f6lgesinden \u00e7\u0131kamayanlar
\n\u2022\tAile kal\u0131plar\u0131n\u0131n bug\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc etkiledi\u011fini hissedenler
\n\u2022\tG\u00fcven, ba\u011flanma ve se\u00e7im konusunda netlik arayanlar<\/p>\n
E\u011fer bu sat\u0131rlar sende bir tan\u0131d\u0131kl\u0131k hissi yaratt\u0131ysa,
\nbu tesad\u00fcf de\u011fil.<\/p>\n
Ocak Ay\u0131 Daveti<\/p>\n
Yeni bir y\u0131la yeni kararlarla de\u011fil,
\nayn\u0131 d\u00f6ng\u00fcy\u00fc ta\u015f\u0131madan girmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn.<\/p>\n
Lev\u00e2ic\u2019te her g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme, bir \u201ckonu\u201d etraf\u0131nda de\u011fil,
\nbir ili\u015fki yetkinli\u011fi etraf\u0131nda yap\u0131land\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Bazen hayat de\u011fi\u015fmez.
\nAma ili\u015fkiyi kuran yer de\u011fi\u015fti\u011finde,
\nhayat kendili\u011finden ba\u015fka bir y\u00f6ne akmaya ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n
Belki de bu y\u0131l\u0131n en ger\u00e7ek ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131,
\nbir d\u00f6ng\u00fcy\u00fc ilk kez fark etmekle ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
De\u011fi\u015fmeyen Hayat De\u011fil, De\u011fi\u015fmeyen Kal\u0131plar Yeni bir y\u0131la girdik. Takvim de\u011fi\u015fti. Ajandalar yenilendi. Peki ya ili\u015fkiler? Bir\u00e7ok insan i\u00e7in as\u0131l soru \u015fu: \u201cNeden hayat\u0131mda yine ayn\u0131 \u015feyler oluyor?\u201d Farkl\u0131 isimler, farkl\u0131 hik\u00e2yeler, farkl\u0131 zamanlar\u2026 Ama his tan\u0131d\u0131k. Yak\u0131nl\u0131kta kaybolmak. Mesafe koyunca su\u00e7luluk. Ayn\u0131 hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131, ayn\u0131 kopu\u015f noktas\u0131. Bu bir tesad\u00fcf de\u011fil. Bu, tekrar eden […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":53827,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","content-type":"","jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":{"subtitle":"","format":"standard","jnews_video_option_group":[[]],"override":[{"template":"1","parallax":"1","fullscreen":"1","layout":"right-sidebar","sidebar":"singlepost-widget","second_sidebar":"default-sidebar","sticky_sidebar":"1","share_position":"float","share_float_style":"share-normal","show_featured":"1","show_post_meta":"1","show_post_author":"1","show_post_author_image":"1","show_post_date":"1","post_date_format":"default","post_date_format_custom":"Y\/m\/d","show_post_category":"1","show_post_reading_time":"0","post_reading_time_wpm":"300","post_calculate_word_method":"str_word_count","show_zoom_button":"1","zoom_button_out_step":"2","zoom_button_in_step":"3","show_post_tag":"1","show_popup_post":"1","show_comment_section":"1","number_popup_post":"2","show_author_box":"1","show_post_related":"1"}],"image_override":[{"single_post_thumbnail_size":"no-crop","single_post_gallery_size":"crop-500"}],"trending_post_position":"meta","trending_post_label":"Trend","sponsored_post_label":"Sponsorlu","disable_ad":"0"},"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_override_bookmark_settings":{"override_bookmark_button":"0","override_show_bookmark_button":"0"},"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_paywall_metabox":{"paragraph_limit":"2","enable_premium_post":"0","enable_free_post":"0","override_paragraph_limit":"0","enable_preview_post":"0","enable_preview_video":"0"},"jnews_review":[],"enable_review":"","type":"percentage","name":"","summary":"","brand":"","sku":"","good":[],"bad":[],"score_override":"","override_value":"","rating":[],"price":[],"jnews_override_counter":{"view_counter_number":"0","share_counter_number":"0","like_counter_number":"0","dislike_counter_number":"0"},"jnews_post_split":{"post_split":[{"template":"1","tag":"h2","numbering":"asc","mode":"normal","first":"0","enable_toc":"0","toc_type":"normal"}]},"jnews_podcast_option":[],"jnews_podcast_series":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[205,634,65,47,212],"tags":[2942,2947,2941,2938,2937,2949,2943,2950,702,2948,2951,2944,2946,2954,2935,2789,2940,2952,2936,2953,2945,2939],"jnews-series":[],"class_list":["post-53833","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-iliskilerim","category-iliski-yetkinlikleri","category-kendimle-olan-iliskim","category-romantik-iliskilerim","category-sosyal-iliskilerim","tag-az-zaman-cok-etki","tag-dogru-yerden-basla","tag-donguyu-kir","tag-farkindalik-yolculugu","tag-gercek-donusum","tag-hayatini-hafiflet","tag-hedef-odakli-gelisim","tag-icgoru-kazandirir","tag-iliski-yetkinligi","tag-iliskini-gelistir","tag-ilk-adimi-at","tag-kendin-icin-basla","tag-kendini-gor","tag-kisisel-gelisim-uygulamasi","tag-konseptli-gorusmeler","tag-levaic-app","tag-levaic-ile-degisim","tag-mobil-kocluk","tag-net-hedef","tag-online-gorusme","tag-yalniz-degilsin","tag-yapilandirilmis-danismanlik"],"yoast_head":"\n