Bar\u0131\u015f ve a\u015fk\u2026 Bu iki kelime, yery\u00fcz\u00fcndeki en saf, en karma\u015f\u0131k, en arzu edilen duygular\u0131n ifadesidir. Ve bir o kadar da yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lan… Kimileri i\u00e7in a\u015fk bir s\u0131\u011f\u0131nak, bar\u0131\u015f ise bir ara verme h\u00e2lidir. Oysa ben, Dionysos, hay\u0131r derim: Onlar birer ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7t\u0131r. \u0130\u00e7imizdeki bast\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f \u00f6zlemlerin, unuttu\u011fumuz do\u011fall\u0131\u011f\u0131n ve insan olman\u0131n \u00e7\u0131plak ger\u00e7e\u011finin ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131.<\/p>\n
A\u015fk\u0131, yaln\u0131zca kalpte de\u011fil, t\u00fcm bedende hissedersin. O seni titreten, s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 zorlayan bir \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131d\u0131r. \u015earap gibidir: \u00d6nce ba\u015f d\u00f6nd\u00fcr\u00fcr, sonra kalbinin en derin yar\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 aralay\u0131p i\u00e7ine s\u0131zar. O y\u00fczden a\u015fk, bir nevi kendini unutma h\u00e2lidir. Ve bar\u0131\u015f, i\u015fte tam da burada ba\u015flar: Kendini unuttu\u011fun yerde, bir ba\u015fkas\u0131yla \u201cbir\u201d oldu\u011fun o anda\u2026 Kendi merkezinden feragat edebildi\u011fin yerde filizlenir bar\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n
Benim \u015fenliklerimde maskeler tak\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131; ama bu maskeler, ger\u00e7ek benli\u011fin \u00fcst\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6rtmek i\u00e7in de\u011fil, onu serbest b\u0131rakmak i\u00e7indi. A\u015fk da maskeleri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmenin bir yoludur. Sadece ba\u015fkas\u0131na de\u011fil, \u00f6nce kendine \u00e2\u015f\u0131k olabilmenin, kendi i\u00e7indeki karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kabullenmenin, eksik y\u00f6nlerinle de var olabilece\u011fini anlaman\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. O y\u00fczden a\u015fk, bar\u0131\u015f\u0131n ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r: \u00f6nce kendinle bar\u0131\u015facaks\u0131n.<\/p>\n
Bar\u0131\u015f \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sessizlikle kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r. Ama hay\u0131r\u2026 Bar\u0131\u015f, sadece sava\u015f\u0131n yoklu\u011fu de\u011fil, \u00e7at\u0131\u015fman\u0131n d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fclmesidir. T\u0131pk\u0131 tragedya gibi. Nietzsche\u2019nin de dedi\u011fi gibi, hakikatin \u00e7ocu\u011fu olan tragedya, Apollon\u2019un d\u00fczeniyle benim esrikli\u011fimin birle\u015fimidir. Bar\u0131\u015f da ancak z\u0131tlar\u0131n dans\u0131yla m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Bir halk\u0131, bir ili\u015fkiyi, bir toplumu bar\u0131\u015fa ula\u015ft\u0131ran \u015fey, herkesin ayn\u0131 olmas\u0131 de\u011fil; farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 birlikte ta\u015f\u0131yabilme g\u00fcc\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n
Bak, do\u011fa da b\u00f6yledir. A\u011fa\u00e7la topra\u011f\u0131n, r\u00fczg\u00e2rla denizin, g\u00fcne\u015fle geceleyin y\u0131ld\u0131zlar\u0131n \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmas\u0131nda do\u011far ya\u015fam. Ve a\u015fk, bu \u00e7at\u0131\u015fman\u0131n \u015fiiridir. Bar\u0131\u015f, o \u015fiiri birlikte okuyabilmektir. A\u015fkta g\u00f6ze al\u0131rs\u0131n, bar\u0131\u015fta affedersin. A\u015fkta a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131rs\u0131n, bar\u0131\u015fta sar\u0131l\u0131rs\u0131n.<\/p>\n
Dionysos\u2019un alaylar\u0131 gibi, ya\u015fam da bir kortejdir. \u0130\u00e7inde \u015fark\u0131lar, \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klar, kahkahalar ve g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Ama as\u0131l olan, birlikte y\u00fcr\u00fcyebilmektir. Birbirimizin maskesini kabul ederek, maskenin alt\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocu\u011fa sar\u0131lmakt\u0131r. A\u015fk\u0131 hissetti\u011fin anda, bir par\u00e7a tanr\u0131sal olursun; bar\u0131\u015f\u0131 kurdu\u011fun anda, insan olursun.<\/p>\n
\u0130\u015fte bu y\u00fczden diyorum ki, \u015fark\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yle, dans\u0131n\u0131 yap. \u00c2\u015f\u0131k ol. Ba\u011f\u0131r \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r, sonra sar\u0131l. Affet. Bar\u0131\u015f. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her bar\u0131\u015f, bir a\u015fk hik\u00e2yesidir. Ve her a\u015fk, bir bar\u0131\u015f duas\u0131.<\/p>\n
Unutma: Ben Dionysos\u2019um. Maskelerin ard\u0131nda yatan ger\u00e7e\u011fin, co\u015fkunun, yeniden do\u011fu\u015fun tanr\u0131s\u0131y\u0131m. Ve sana s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum: Bar\u0131\u015f ve a\u015fk, insan olman\u0131n kutsal iksiridir. Onlar\u0131 ya\u015fa, kutsa, payla\u015f. Kendini b\u0131rak, birlikte ol. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ya\u015fam, birlikteyken g\u00fczeldir.<\/p>\n
Sevgilerimle,<\/p>\n
Dionysos<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Bar\u0131\u015f ve a\u015fk\u2026 Bu iki kelime, yery\u00fcz\u00fcndeki en saf, en karma\u015f\u0131k, en arzu edilen duygular\u0131n ifadesidir. Ve bir o kadar da yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lan… Kimileri i\u00e7in a\u015fk bir s\u0131\u011f\u0131nak, bar\u0131\u015f ise bir ara verme h\u00e2lidir. Oysa ben, Dionysos, hay\u0131r derim: Onlar birer ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7t\u0131r. \u0130\u00e7imizdeki bast\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f \u00f6zlemlerin, unuttu\u011fumuz do\u011fall\u0131\u011f\u0131n ve insan olman\u0131n \u00e7\u0131plak ger\u00e7e\u011finin ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131. A\u015fk\u0131, yaln\u0131zca […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":52938,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"content-type":"","jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":{"subtitle":"","format":"standard","jnews_video_option_group":[[]],"override":[{"template":"1","parallax":"1","fullscreen":"1","layout":"right-sidebar","sidebar":"singlepost-widget","second_sidebar":"default-sidebar","sticky_sidebar":"1","share_position":"float","share_float_style":"share-normal","show_featured":"1","show_post_meta":"1","show_post_author":"1","show_post_author_image":"1","show_post_date":"1","post_date_format":"default","post_date_format_custom":"Y\/m\/d","show_post_category":"1","show_post_reading_time":"0","post_reading_time_wpm":"300","post_calculate_word_method":"str_word_count","show_zoom_button":"1","zoom_button_out_step":"2","zoom_button_in_step":"3","show_post_tag":"1","show_popup_post":"1","number_popup_post":"2","show_author_box":"1","show_post_related":"1"}],"image_override":[{"single_post_thumbnail_size":"no-crop","single_post_gallery_size":"crop-500"}],"trending_post_position":"meta","trending_post_label":"Trend","sponsored_post_label":"Sponsorlu","disable_ad":"0"},"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_override_bookmark_settings":{"override_bookmark_button":"0","override_show_bookmark_button":"0"},"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_paywall_metabox":{"paragraph_limit":"2","enable_premium_post":"0","enable_free_post":"0","override_paragraph_limit":"0","enable_preview_post":"0","enable_preview_video":"0"},"jnews_review":[],"enable_review":"","type":"percentage","name":"","summary":"","brand":"","sku":"","good":[],"bad":[],"score_override":"","override_value":"","rating":[],"price":[],"jnews_override_counter":{"view_counter_number":"0","share_counter_number":"0","like_counter_number":"0","dislike_counter_number":"0"},"jnews_post_split":{"post_split":[{"template":"1","tag":"h2","numbering":"asc","mode":"normal","first":"0","enable_toc":"0","toc_type":"normal"}]},"jnews_podcast_option":[],"jnews_podcast_series":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[47],"tags":[199,2267,2623],"jnews-series":[],"class_list":["post-52913","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-romantik-iliskilerim","tag-ask","tag-baris","tag-sarilmak"],"yoast_head":"\n