G\u00fcnlerden bug\u00fcn Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fc. Sistem hediyesini paketlemi\u015f, \u00fcst\u00fcne pembeli mavi kurdeleler ba\u011flam\u0131\u015f. Reklam panolar\u0131nda y\u00fcz\u00fc yorgun ama g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyen bir anne fig\u00fcr\u00fcyle, \u201canneli\u011fin kutsall\u0131\u011f\u0131\u201d anlat\u0131l\u0131yor. Ancak unutulmamal\u0131 ki kutsall\u0131k ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda kad\u0131n\u0131 ev i\u00e7ine hapseden, onun duygular\u0131n\u0131, bedenini ve ne\u015fesini sistematik olarak ara\u00e7salla\u015ft\u0131ran bir d\u00fczen var. Ne\u015femizi \u00e7alan, ne\u015femizi meta haline getiren, sonra da bir g\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne bize geri sunan ataerkil bir d\u00fczenden bahsediyorum.<\/p>\n
Kad\u0131n ne\u015fesi… Ne zordur de\u011fil mi bu iki kelimenin yan yana gelmesi patriarkal bir d\u00fcnyada? Kad\u0131n ne\u015fesi; erkek akl\u0131n \u201cciddiyet\u201d tak\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131na, normatif rollerin s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na ve ‘makbul kad\u0131n’ imgelerine s\u0131\u011fmaz. O Dionysos\u2019un asmas\u0131 gibi sarar, k\u0131rar zincirleri. Do\u011furganl\u0131\u011f\u0131 sadece biyolojik de\u011fil; yarat\u0131c\u0131, d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc, \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015ftirici anlamlar ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Nietzsche\u2019nin trajik d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesinde Dionysos\u2019un temsil etti\u011fi ya\u015fam co\u015fkusunun tam kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda Apolloncu d\u00fczen ve s\u0131n\u0131r koyucu ak\u0131l yer al\u0131r. Kad\u0131n, bu Apolloncu d\u00fczenin yans\u0131tmas\u0131nda \u00e7o\u011fu zaman formun, kal\u0131b\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131na ta\u015fan olarak temsil edilir; bast\u0131r\u0131lmak istenir. Ama i\u015fte burada Dionysos gelir. Onun maskesini takan kad\u0131n, sadece anne de\u011fil, yarat\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n kendisidir; ya\u015fam\u0131n hem i\u00e7indeki hem \u00f6tesindeki kudreti ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Anne ne\u015fesi, yaln\u0131zca \u00e7ocu\u011funa bakan bir fig\u00fcr de\u011fil; yaratman\u0131n, ya\u015fatman\u0131n, \u00f6zg\u00fcr b\u0131rakman\u0131n, ne\u015feyle delili\u011fin e\u015fikte bulu\u015ftu\u011fu yerdir. Ve bu ne\u015feyi bast\u0131ran sistem yaln\u0131zca ataerkil yap\u0131 de\u011fildir; onunla kol kola y\u00fcr\u00fcyen t\u00fcketim k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc, dini dogmalar, toplumsal roller, hatta bazen anneli\u011fi kutsarken kad\u0131n\u0131 hi\u00e7e sayan romantik y\u00fcceltmeler de bu bast\u0131rman\u0131n arac\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Bug\u00fcn Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fc. Kutlamal\u0131 m\u0131y\u0131z? Elbette. Ama Ne\u015feyi geri alarak. Dans ederek, kahkaha atarak, sistemin dayatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 rollerin \u00fczerine \u00fcz\u00fcm ezerek kutlayal\u0131m. Ne\u015feyi yeniden politik yapal\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ne\u015fe, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck demektir. Ne\u015fe, diren\u00e7tir. Ne\u015fe, ya\u015fama evet demenin bir halidir.<\/p>\n
Ataerkilli\u011fe dair son s\u00f6z\u00fcm \u015fudur:
\nO sistem ki kad\u0131n\u0131 “fedak\u00e2r”, “anneli\u011fiyle anlam bulan” bir g\u00f6lgeye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcr, onun \u00e7ok sesli kimli\u011fini bast\u0131r\u0131r. Oysa anne olmak biriciktir ama tek de\u011fildir. Kad\u0131n; anne, \u00e2\u015f\u0131k, yarat\u0131c\u0131, ba\u015fkald\u0131ran, seven, terk eden, yeniden do\u011fan ve bazen sadece susan olabilir. Dionysos\u2019un \u00f6\u011fretti\u011fi gibi: Hi\u00e7bir \u015fey sadece bir \u015fey de\u011fildir. Ne\u015fe ise her \u015feydir.<\/p>\n
\u015eimdi, Sence kad\u0131n ne\u015fesi en \u00e7ok nerede bast\u0131r\u0131l\u0131yor bug\u00fcn?<\/p>\n
Sevgiyle, a\u015fkla kal\u0131n can\u0131m anneler ve kad\u0131nlar. Bug\u00fcn de\u011fil her g\u00fcn sistemi yeniden in\u015fa edece\u011fimiz g\u00fcnler sizin eseriniz olacak!<\/p>\n
Dionysos<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
G\u00fcnlerden bug\u00fcn Anneler G\u00fcn\u00fc. Sistem hediyesini paketlemi\u015f, \u00fcst\u00fcne pembeli mavi kurdeleler ba\u011flam\u0131\u015f. Reklam panolar\u0131nda y\u00fcz\u00fc yorgun ama g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyen bir anne fig\u00fcr\u00fcyle, \u201canneli\u011fin kutsall\u0131\u011f\u0131\u201d anlat\u0131l\u0131yor. Ancak unutulmamal\u0131 ki kutsall\u0131k ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda kad\u0131n\u0131 ev i\u00e7ine hapseden, onun duygular\u0131n\u0131, bedenini ve ne\u015fesini sistematik olarak ara\u00e7salla\u015ft\u0131ran bir d\u00fczen var. Ne\u015femizi \u00e7alan, ne\u015femizi meta haline getiren, sonra da bir g\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":52699,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","content-type":"","jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":{"format":"standard","jnews_video_option_group":[[]],"override":[{"template":"1","parallax":"1","fullscreen":"1","layout":"right-sidebar","sidebar":"singlepost-widget","second_sidebar":"default-sidebar","sticky_sidebar":"1","share_position":"float","share_float_style":"share-normal","show_featured":"1","show_post_meta":"1","show_post_author":"1","show_post_author_image":"1","show_post_date":"1","post_date_format":"default","post_date_format_custom":"Y\/m\/d","show_post_category":"1","show_post_reading_time":"0","post_reading_time_wpm":"300","post_calculate_word_method":"str_word_count","show_zoom_button":"1","zoom_button_out_step":"2","zoom_button_in_step":"3","show_post_tag":"1","show_popup_post":"1","number_popup_post":"2","show_author_box":"1","show_post_related":"1"}],"image_override":[{"single_post_thumbnail_size":"no-crop","single_post_gallery_size":"crop-500"}],"trending_post_position":"meta","trending_post_label":"Trend","sponsored_post_label":"Sponsorlu","disable_ad":"0","subtitle":"Dionysos\u2019un Yank\u0131lar\u0131"},"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_override_bookmark_settings":{"override_bookmark_button":"0","override_show_bookmark_button":"0"},"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_paywall_metabox":{"enable_premium_post":"0","paragraph_limit":"2","enable_preview_post":"0","enable_preview_video":"0"},"jnews_review":[],"enable_review":"","type":"percentage","name":"","summary":"","brand":"","sku":"","good":[],"bad":[],"score_override":"","override_value":"","rating":[],"price":[],"jnews_override_counter":{"view_counter_number":"0","share_counter_number":"0","like_counter_number":"0","dislike_counter_number":"0"},"jnews_post_split":{"post_split":[{"template":"1","tag":"h2","numbering":"asc","mode":"normal","first":"0","enable_toc":"0","toc_type":"normal"}]},"jnews_podcast_option":[],"jnews_podcast_series":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[205,1521,65,212],"tags":[2463,2461,2460,199,2459,772,2462],"jnews-series":[],"class_list":["post-52697","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aile-iliskilerim","category-anasayfa","category-kendimle-olan-iliskim","category-sosyal-iliskilerim","tag-anne-cocuk","tag-anneler-gunu","tag-annelik","tag-ask","tag-kadin-nesesi","tag-ozgurluk","tag-yaratici"],"yoast_head":"\n